27 Days of Music – The O’s… and some rated PG-13 talk.

I’ve had a nice relaxing Sunday (my faux Saturday) which means tomorrow, after a few appointments, I will relax before Tuesday. It’s possible the plight of getting older that you need to relax before you go back to work. I really do like my sleep these days. I’m sure that’s not good.

On a positive note though, my foot is doing a whole lot better and I was even able to wear something other than chucks for the first time in days, so obviously I didn’t break it. I will say this though, whatever happens do NOT try to catch a glass bottle with your bare foot. It never turns out well, for the foot.

Now, today, I’ve been trying to catch up on some TV watching and was thinking about starting over with Sons of Anarchy. I really like this show but there was one episode that I watched that made it hard for me to watch again. I think I’m good now and I’ll know which one to fast forward through. I was always an Opie fan though and it was never the same after he left. Sorry if that was a spoiler for you.

I got into a conversation today with someone and we were talking about our favorite movies and TV shows. I think my list changes a lot but what always stays on there is Goonies. That is such a fun film but I’m also a huge fan of anything Zalman King. I think the guy I was talking to was a bit surprised about that but I don’t care. I’m not going to filter my choices depending on the person but now I think he’s got the wrong idea about me.

This is about to turn into a sex talk. I’m a very open person, especially when it comes to sex. I like to talk about it. I know what I like in bed and I’ve seen a lot of porn or “research”. 🙂 But this doesn’t make me a whore, a slut or easy. I’m not, at all, easy and if I was to tell you my number you would be shocked, maybe. I think that the bedroom is always a place to experiment. I don’t like the idea of a date night for sex. I think people should have it all day, everyday. This brings up the what’s sexy to me question.

What’s sexy to me is this:
in jeans and white button down shirts, unbuttoned.

in their most honest form.

crying for something emotions, even a movie.

showing affection and forcing me to show affection.

asking questions and calling me on not offering the information that they are looking for.

a look a man gives me. You know the one where he wants to kiss you. Where he’s looking directly in your eyes and not looking away.

sharing their past.

being interested in something that I do, have, are or anything.

showing up, unannounced because they just had to see me.


reading something they want me to hear.

being in the moment, no cell phones, iPads or laptops.

Wearing or using something that I’ve gotten them.

watching a movie they don’t like because they know I do.

ordering my food for me at a restaurant.

giving me a hug from behind where I can lay my head back on their shoulder.

texting me random things, pictures or quotes that I like.

telling me about their dreams.

saying, “I want you, now!”

touching the skin on my lower back, under my shirt. Bare skin to skin.

trailing the outline of my lips with their finger.

singing, even if it’s bad.

learning something that I know because they want to impress me.

feeding me off their plate, with their fork.

I could probably go on and on. There’s lots of things that I like and think are sexy. Some are right on course with everyone else and some are quirky or different. But it also depends on who they guy is. Right now, it’s been such a long time since I’ve been intimate with a man that I feel I’d forget how to do everything anyway. I miss the kissing the most. I miss the “sitting on a couch making out” of dating. I need to get laid soon and that is what I’ll leave you with tonight before the music.

Hope you had a great weekend and a great week.

These are not my sex songs. I’ll have to do that on another night.